by vanissadrar | Aug 21, 2026 | In Passing
Because every choice carries a small death. Something has to be abandoned. A version of yourself. A place. A possibility. A hope you kept alive longer than you should have. And sometimes, the hardest part is that both doors lead somewhere. One leads toward everything...
by vanissadrar | Aug 18, 2026 | In Passing
There are people who move through life as though every ending were merely an interruption, convinced that the world can always be returned to its original settings. As if the past were nothing more than a page that can be rewritten by the person holding the pen....
by vanissadrar | Aug 15, 2026 | In Passing
There comes a point where forgiveness ceases to be a virtue and becomes a lesson we unknowingly teach others. Excessive forgiveness, offered without boundaries or consequences, does not always cultivate gratitude or transformation. More often, it reshapes perception....
by vanissadrar | Aug 13, 2026 | In Passing
There comes a moment in a person’s life when they can no longer ignore the pattern. Not because the pattern has suddenly appeared, but because they have finally become conscious of it. We often remain inside cycles for years without realizing that we are living...
by vanissadrar | Aug 12, 2026 | In Passing
Respect is often spoken of as though it were a virtue one person can demand from another, regardless of how they behave. But genuine respect does not exist in a vacuum. It is sustained by reciprocity. No one can consistently diminish, humiliate, disregard, or...
by vanissadrar | Aug 10, 2026 | In Passing
I’ve come to realize that not everything is meant to be understood. Sometimes there is simply nothing to understand. We often believe that every painful experience, every sudden change, or every disappointing action must have a hidden reason waiting to be...
